The Items That Make Getting Dressed Easier

Wardrobe full of clothes but nothing to wear? Leading Stylist Sarah Barlow, says it’s completely normal to no longer identify with your wardrobe after you have a baby.

“That might be down to shape change, but it’s also because your life has changed too. “When you have 5 minutes to get ready, the last thing you want to do is rummage through sequin trousers and leather mini skirts to find something suitable for soft play.”

Sarah says, “You don’t need to throw everything out and start again. Follow my tips and I promise you’ll find getting dressed so much easier!”

Things to Do Before You Shop

  1. Buy a New Bra
    Boobs change whether you breastfeed or not. And your clothes won’t fit correctly if your underwear doesn’t. And you don’t have to drag yourself and your newborn to a bra fitting, as some lingerie brands such as Bravissimo offer them online.
  2. Make Time for a Clearout
    Assess what you can wear right now. Then, take out the rest and either whack beloved non-wearables in vacuum-packed storage, take them to a charity shop, or sell them on Vinted (for more premium items, I recommend listing them on The Cirkel). If you make money, you can put it towards buying new items.
  3. Create Structure
    When placing everything back into your wardrobe, try rearranging it into clear categories. This may sound obvious, but it will make getting dressed much easier. I always use this order: dresses, tops, shirts/blouses, skirts, shorts, trousers, suits/co-ords, jackets. Knitwear and jeans are best folded or rolled in drawers or baskets.
  4. Spread Out The Expense
    Clearing out might have solved the issue of ‘what to wear’ and enabled your wardrobe (and mind) to breathe. But if not, then you might need to buy a few versatile staple pieces that can easily be worn and styled together. But there’s no rush. You don’t need to have a brand-new wardrobe within a week. Think of this as the beginning of your new style journey, and remember to look for specific items on preloved sites to grab a bargain.

Your ‘New Mum Wardrobe’ Starter Kit

A Flattering Shirt
1.
A Flattering Shirt

White, cargo or printed – a good-fitting shirt can be worn casually with leggings, smart tracksuit trousers or jeans. You can also dress it up for work or a special occasion by pairing it with a skirt or layering it underneath dresses.

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Comfy Trousers That Make You Feel Smart
2.
Comfy Trousers That Make You Feel Smart

A flattering wide-leg cut will suit pretty much any body shape. They’re a smarter alternative to casual jeans, but thanks to the elasticated waist, they’re a hundred times more comfortable!

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A 'Goes With Everything' Trainer
3.
A ‘Goes With Everything’ Trainer

It’s incredible what a new pair of trainers can do for your soul, and they go with everything. There may be rumours that the ‘white trainer is dead’, but I strongly disagree. Think practically instead of getting carried away with fleeting trends; decide what shade and style of shoe will work with most of your clothes.

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The 'Do It All' Dress
4.
The ‘Do It All’ Dress

A new dress that you can wear with boots, flats or heels is invaluable. Polka dots and prints like leopard are also versatile as they work across seasons.

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The I Feel Fancy Coat
5.
The I Feel Fancy Coat

A new coat is probably the most expensive purchase of the fashion year. But it is worth investing in quality as it will see you through winter after winter and make you feel more put together.

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The Shove-It-All-In Tote
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The Shove-It-All-In Tote

I love a ‘hands-free’ cross-body bag, but sometimes it just won’t cut it, and a larger carrier is required. Anything washable or wipeable also gets my vote.

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The Timeless Trench
7.
The Timeless Trench

A trench is a timeless classic but extremely practical… especially one that’s waterproof or comes with a hood.

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The Basic Breton Top
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The Basic Breton Top

I’d be pretty surprised if you didn’t already have one, but if not opt for one with a dark navy stripe, and it will go with every other colour/piece in your wardrobe.

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Your Favourite New Jeans
9.
Your Favourite New Jeans

This one might take some time to shop, but life will be much easier when you get a great new fit for your shape. So either book out an afternoon where you go on your own or order some online and have a try-on session in your bedroom.

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How to look put together in seconds
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How to look put together in seconds

For days when you want to look like you’ve made more of an effort (but haven’t had to), throw on a relaxed tailored blazer over any outfit combo.

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A Wear With Anything Knit
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A Wear With Anything Knit

This perfect-for-sofa-snuggles-sweater will also look great dressed up with a slip skirt or a pair of tailored wide-leg trousers when (and if) you decide to head back to work.

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The Dress-Up-Or-Down Slip Skirt
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The Dress-Up-Or-Down Slip Skirt

If the clinginess of a slip skirt isn’t for you, then a pleated midi skirt can also work here. Layer it up with an oversized knit & blazer in the winter or t-shirts and vests in warmer weather.

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A Boot That Makes an Outfit
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A Boot That Makes an Outfit

A flat pull-on ankle boot with a chunky cleated sole is the ideal ‘mum on the run’ choice of footwear. From dresses to jeans and everything else in between, pair these boots with pretty much anything in your winter wardrobe, and when the summer comes, swap them out for a pair of flatform sandals.

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The Item That Fixes Everything
14.
The Item That Fixes Everything

Nearly unbreakable sunnies that hide tired eyes also make you look instantly stylish. If you’re short-sighted and your tired, dry eyes can’t handle lenses, I recommend Ace & Tate for a great selection of prescription-friendly frames.

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Your Stylish Throw On
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Your Stylish Throw On

Cosy, comfortable and chic… a knitted dress is the ultimate ‘throw-on-and-go’ outfit. And in the summer, a maxi linen dress works in the same way.

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Sarah Barlow, Stylist
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6 Ways to Help Your Child’s Mental Health

The best thing you can do for your children is to listen, love and support them. So you’ve already got this. But if you want to encourage a happier care free future, these are some things that might help.

1. Follow These Expert Tips…

  1. Assess Their Needs
    Just because they demand chocolate for breakfast doesn’t mean they should have it. However, you will begin to notice a pattern of behaviour in your children. Maybe they’re irrational after nursery pick up and bringing a snack helps, or giving them an earlier bedtime routine means tantrums are averted. Another day pent up energy might mean they need to run it off or a calming bath helps calm their mood. When children are little they have no idea how to regulate their own moods. So noticing triggers can really help avoid upset. But go easy on yourself, it takes time to understand them and we’re not sure anyone ever fully gets it right.
  2. Make Time For Yourself
    Never feel guilty about doing something for yourself! The whole family unit functions better when you make time to fill your cup. And there’s no point prioritising everyone else and forgetting yourself, as your mood will eventually filtrate into the family. So make time for you.
  3. Block Off 10 Minutes
    Giving your child at least 10 minutes one-on-one time really fills up their tank. It also helps regulate their mood and aids independent play as they’ve had their time with you. Try to name it as your ‘special time’, so they know it has a start and a finish and follow their lead in terms of the activity you decide on, so they feel in control.
  4. Create a Calmer Bedtime
    If you’ve had an extremely busy day try factoring in an additional 30 minutes at night to make space for and to soothe their emotions. Children learn to self-soothe through us co-regulating and practicing with them time and time again. Making bedtime a calm time can really support their positive associations and provide them with tangible roots for promoting restful sleep.

For more tips follow @jennihoneyben on Instagram

2. Gently Introduce the Idea of Thoughts and Feelings Through Books…

KIND BY ALISON GREEN
KIND BY ALISON GREEN

This inspiring picture book talks about the many ways children can be kind, from sharing their toys and games to making those from other countries feel welcome

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MY EMOTIONS ACTIVITY BOOK
MY EMOTIONS ACTIVITY BOOK

This free downloadable book is full of fun activities encouraging children to start gentle conversations about their thoughts and feelings.

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3. Let Them Know You’re Their Biggest Supporter…

CLUB PATCHES
CLUB PATCHES

Got a school or preschool starter? These badges are the perfect reminder to give or sew into your kids clothes or a coat they use for school. Let them know that they have absolutely got this and you’re with them every step of the way. And if they want to be connected to you all they have to do is look or touch the badge.

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4. Reduce Screen Time…

YOTO PLAYER
YOTO PLAYER

Yoto is one of our favourite ways to reduce screen time and still entertain kids. They’re also ad free and microphone free so you can feel confident that your child is safe whilst they enjoy their pick of relaxing content that promotes mindfulness and wellbeing. Whether it’s familiar classics like Paddington, or Meditations to Moshi content, Yoga and Draw-Along activities, there’s loads of options to help children explore their choice of chill independently.

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5. Encourage Physical Activities…

Physical health vastly improves mental health and it can improve a child’s mood and also help build connections with other children and build up self-esteem.

RUN OFF SOME ENERGY AT RUGBYTOTS
RUN OFF SOME ENERGY AT RUGBYTOTS

Physical health is excellent for your mind, and there are tons of activities you can sign your little ones up to (too many, maybe), but Rugbytots is a great one for teaching them skills and letting them run off some energy.

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6. Give Yourself Some Additional Help…

HOW TO SUPPORT YOUR ANXIOUS CHILD, BY POPPY O'NEILL
HOW TO SUPPORT YOUR ANXIOUS CHILD, BY POPPY O’NEILL

This supportive guide offers helpful solutions and effective coping strategies. From identifying the source of your child’s anxiety to helping your child practise calming techniques when they feel anxious and knowing when to seek support.

Reviewed by us: Breville (Sage) Barista Coffee Machine

Reviewed by: TMC Co-Founder Lauren Webber

Pro IconPros

It saves you money

You have coffee shop quality as you wake up

Easy to use

It’s life-changing

There’s tons of You Tube tutorials to help you use it

Con IconCons

Initial cost is high

It’s noisy, so not great if you’re trying to be quiet

It’s big and requires counter space

You’ll miss it when you travel.

What is it?

A coffee machine with an integrated grinder, which enables you to produce barista-style espressos, lattes and cappuccinos at home. Unlike other high-tech coffee machines, this is extremely easy to use. *Please note this machine is made by Breville if you’re in the U.S. and Sage if you’re in the U.K.

Overall Thoughts
Overall Thoughts

This coffee machine has secured a special place in my heart, ranking just below my children and husband. The thought of parenting without it is unthinkable. I love it so much it was one of the first things we bought when we moved to America. (*In the UK i had a Sage machine and over here it’s made by Breville – they’re sister brands, so it’s the same product). This machine has transformed my mornings. The convenience and quality of the coffee is unmatched. The smell that fills my kitchen each morning is another joy this machine brings to my daily routine.

Any Downsides?

As with any product, it comes with its share of drawbacks. The noise level can be pretty loud when grinding the beans. While it doesn’t bother me much, it’s worth noting you might have to wait for the baby to wake!

Is it Worth the Money?
Is it Worth the Money?

The initial cost might seem quite a lot. But when I add up what I used to spend on daily coffee runs, the Breville coffee machine is a great investment. If you’re a coffee enthusiast, or just really tired all the time and NEED coffee, I’d say this is a a game-changer and worth every penny.

Latest Deals From Retailers

Latest Deal
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£649.99

10 Things We Actually Want for Valentine’s Day  

1. An Hour Alone at Home with Absolutely Nothing to Do.

Like truly, properly alone. Imagine: a clean house in complete silence, washing basket empty, food shop done. And 60 whole minutes to sit in glorious silence, take a bath, or read a book not written by Julia Donaldson.

2. To Stay in a Hotel Sans Kids.

No yelling in the middle of the night, the possibility of room service, day naps, a lie-in. And if we’re really feeling free – maybe even sex!!!

3. To Not Have to Think About All the Things

Is there AI for the ‘Mental Load’ yet? And if so, can you just input it into our brains.

4. To Not Pick Food Up off The Floor

Thinking about attaching mop heads to their feet tbh.

5. A Trip to The Cinema

Or a lie down in a dark room. We’re not fussy.

6. A Spa Day

The closest we get these days is our toddler driving their toy cars over our back. *2 out of 10 would not recommend.

7. A Good TV Box Set We Can Get Addicted To

Netflix? Completed it mate. We’re now onto the archives.

8. Comfy Joggers That Pass as Daywear.

We never thought we’d be those people. And here we are.

9. The Chance to Dress Up

Somewhere hidden underneath the mum bun and stain-covered clothes, there’s a once-stylish fashionista dying to get out, *if she can be arsed.

11. To Have a Lie in That Doesn’t Sound Like World War II

Why when it’s our turn, is everything SO F*CKING LOUD!?

What to Wear This Week

Forever in athleisure. And, of course, brown is the new black.

The Hotlist: The Best Things to Do in February

This month we’re in the mood for love, pancakes and a lot of planning for Mother’s Day me time…

Put Yourself First, Not Pancakes…

Don’t get us wrong, we love Pancake Day, but sometimes the pressure of doing all the days is too much. Just remember that small children have no concept of calendar dates, so if life gets in the way and you’re too tired to flip a pan, no one will know. Do it at the weekend, merge it with Valentine’s or forget the whole thing entirely. Life will continue…

Heart Shaped Pan *for the mergers

Find a Parent Pleasing Valentine’s Day Card…

Save yourself some effort with three of our best finds…

Speak to Your Love Language…

This Valentine’s Day, we’ve got a gift for every kind of love.

Words of Affirmation With Every Cuppa
Words of Affirmation With Every Cuppa

This one works for them and you.

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Acts of Service With The Best Dinner Kits
Acts of Service With The Best Dinner Kits

*Buys as a gift. Gets them to make it.

The Best Restaurant Dinner Kits
Receiving Gifts That You Actually Want
Receiving Gifts That You Actually Want

Upgrade your car garage flowers with this timely and on-trend accessory.

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Quality time at the Cinema
Quality time at the Cinema

A night at the cinema = quality time that includes popcorn, escapism and a necessary pre-screening trip to Nandos. Book that babysitter now.

Argylle, In Cinemas Feb 1st
Physical Touch Reawakened
Physical Touch Reawakened

Need a little help reigniting the fire? Why not gift yourself a love egg this Valentine’s Day? Then give your partner the remote and use it in the cinema, in a restaurant, or in front of the ‘tele’!
Yeah, we’ll leave the location to you.

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Save Money This Mother’s Day

Getting organised never felt so good!

15% off Biscuiteers
15% off Biscuiteers

Need some gift inspiration for your mum or a loved one? This month, we have an exclusive discount for Biscuiteers. Whether you want to send or receive their beautiful Mother’s Day Flowers Collection, or you fancy another beautiful themed box or treat. The Mum Club members get 15% off the site until March 10th. Simply enter the code MUMCLUB15 at checkout.

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*T&Cs: Single use code valid until 23:59 10th March 2024, excludes E-gift cards. Maximum basket value £300, cannot be used on multi delivery checkout.

20% off Carrie Elizabeth
20% off Carrie Elizabeth

Carrie Elizabeth makes the most beautiful and ornate jewellery, and you get 20% off with your exclusive TMC Members Perk. Just use the code MUMCEJ20 at checkout.

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Book into a Swanky New Spa…

Omorovicza, The Mayfair Institute
Omorovicza, The Mayfair Institute

New to Mayfair, Omorovicza’s London Institute is the most beautiful shop come spa. Housing treatments like, The Illuminating Skin Therapy Session, £200, which is excellent at reviving tired dull faces. It’s the perfect place to book for a very special treat.

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Eat All The Cake…

Sketch, Afternoon Tea
Sketch, Afternoon Tea

Whether you’re planning ahead for Mother’s Day or you and a pal need a much needed catch up, afternoon tea makes for the best excuse to scoff a load of cake.
Sketch London is one of the best we’ve tried and has special sittings for Valentine’s and Mother’s Day.

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Fill Your Cup…

The Mum Club Mother's Day Events
The Mum Club Mother’s Day Events

So many of our clubs are hosting Mother’s Day events. From East Renfrewshire to Redbridge, our hosts are ready to put you first. Join us at your nearest club for a morning or moment that is all about you.

Find Your Nearest Event

Celebrate Your Inner Diva (or someone else’s)

DIVA, V&A Museum
DIVA, V&A Museum

Visit London’s V&A Museum this month and view the new DIVA exhibition. Celebrating the power and creativity of iconic performers, you can expect to see iconic imagery, costume and design. Highlights include Elton John’s opulent 50th birthday wig and outfit and dazzling costumes worn by Cher, Tina Turner, and Rihanna.

Book tickets

Take Your Little Ones to Liverpool…

Little Liverpool
Little Liverpool

Live near Merseyside? Head to the cities museum this month to find a hands-on fantasy world made for children. Crammed with fun activities for children under the age of six. It’s free to visit and makes for the perfect rainy (and educational) day out.

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Watch These…

Completed Seasons 2 of The Tourist and The Traitors? And finished with Mr Bates vs The Post Office and Fool Me Once? It’s time for February to bring you some fresh new drama…

One Day, Netflix, Feb 8th
One Day, Netflix, Feb 8th

We loved the book and film and now the heart-breaking David Nicholls novel is getting the Netflix treatment as the series appears on our screens this month. Will it match up?

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Masters of the Air
Masters of the Air

Whether war stories are your thing or not, this new film from Tom Hanks, Steven Spielberg, and Gary Goetzman is sure to engage your attention.

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The New Look
The New Look

This emotionally thrilling 10-part series covers the life of Christian Dior. Covering everything from his rivalry with Coco Chanel to how he navigated the horrors of World War II and launched ‘The New Look’.

Watch the trailer
Mr & Mrs Smith, Prime Video, Feb 2nd
Mr & Mrs Smith, Prime Video, Feb 2nd

Another film that’s now a series. Mr & Mrs Smith works on the same humorous concept as the Brad and Angelina movie but shows a couple that fake a marriage for a mission and then discover real feelings along the way.

Watch the trailer

Read This…

Girls Just Want to Have Funds…
Girls Just Want to Have Funds…

Whether you want to master the art of setting realistic goals, demystify financial jargon and markets or finally get excited about your financial future, find all the answers you need and more with this comprehensive guide.

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Listen to This…

Louis Theroux and Paul Mescal
Louis Theroux and Paul Mescal

We enjoyed listening and laughing at this brilliant interview where Louis quizzes Paul on the impact of Hollywood fame and what it feels like to be at the start of what looks like a very exciting career.

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Reviewed By Us: By Rotation Clothing Rental App

Reviewed by: TMC CRM, Andi Venardos

Pro IconPros

It helps you make an income

You can rent or lend designers clothes, shoes & accessories

The app is easy to use

It creates a positive impact on the environment

Con IconCons

The platform takes a commission fee

Potential for clothes to be ruined

Overall thoughts

I love this app, both as a lender and a renter. It was great when I was pregnant and needed clothes for special occasions. It meant I didn’t have to invest in a new item I possibly wouldn’t wear again. It has also allowed me to make money by renting out items from my wardrobe that I’ve never worn or only worn once. I also feel like I’m doing a little bit of good for the environment – or avoiding fast fashion, at least!

What is it and how do you use it?
What is it and how do you use it?

By Rotation is an online clothing rental app where you can rent out your clothes, shoes and accessories or hire items from Net-a-Porter and other people at a fraction of the retail price. It’s got everything from Gucci handbags to Artipoppe baby carriers to Perfect Moment ski gear and 16Arlington dresses.

Would you recommend it?
Would you recommend it?

Most definitely, it’s been an excellent way for me to make some extra money by lending out my clothes. It also allowed me to rent items with the changing of my body during my pregnancy and postpartum. The app is so easy to use, and I’ve had nothing but great experiences with lending and renting.

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TMC Recipe of the week: Leftover Veg Pastry Puff

Bought loads of veg and now it’s just sat in your fridge draw?
Stick what you can in the oven, roast it, and then whack it on some pastry (*with cheese and tomato paste). And you’ve got yourself the most delicious and nutritious meal.

A More Official Recipe…

Ingredients

– 1 pack Ready Rolled Puff Pastry
– 200 g Feta Cheese, crumbled
– 2 tbsps of Tomato Paste
– 1 Courgette, ribbons
– 4 Asparagus Spears, ribbons
– Handful of Mixed Baby Plum Tomatoes, halved
– Handful of Grated Cheddar Cheese
– 1 tbsp Mixed Herbs
– Salt and Pepper to taste

Method

– Preheat oven to 180˚C
– Unroll the puff pastry sheet onto a lined baking tray. Spread tomato paste over the pastry, leaving a border of approx 1 1/2cm’s to allow the pastry to rise.
– Add and equally scatter courgettes, asparagus, baby plum tomatoes, cheddar and feta. Sprinkle mixed herbs and season.
– Bake in the oven for 20 minutes until the pastry is golden at the edges. Allow to stand for 2-3 minutes before serving.

Watch How to Make it…

The Corner Plot’s recipe for using winter veg lefties…

The Best Things to Shop at Zara Kids Right Now

Let’s be honest, we all love a bit of Zara and their kids’ collection is just as good as the grown-up stuff. But we always forget to look there.

Save yourself the scroll and shop our edit of all the best bits, from cosy waffle knits to super soft dungarees.

Newborn

Zara’s newborn selection is always worth a look for their muted colour palettes and modern take on traditional shapes. This week we’re loving everything from the powder pink ballet flats to quilted coats and the most adorable bouclé dungarees.

Toddlers

From a bow-adorned sweater that, quite frankly, we’d like in our size, please to classic Breton stripes, Zara’s current edit of toddler pieces is amongst the best on the high street.

All products on this page have been selected by our editorial team, however, we may make a commission on some products.

Congratulations! It’s Twins! Now What?

Real mum Madalaine McCarthy Wright, shares the things that have helped her…

‘Do twins run in your family?’ is a question that I get asked frequently. And the answer? That would be a firm no.
So, to say I was shocked when the sonographer casually announced there was two, is an understatement.

Eight months into twin mum life and things feel a lot less scary. But rewind a year, and I could have really done with reading this.

Navigating the News…

I hadn’t been in the greatest rush to have a baby. So finding out one was two, took some time to process.

“I felt very overwhelmed at the prospect of carrying and birthing two babies and my biggest piece of advice for anyone processing the news of a multiple pregnancy is to do your research. It can be scary – you will now be classed as a high-risk pregnancy and should be under consultant-led care – but understanding what I needed to know when it came to possible risk factors, birth options and extra scans, led me to feel in control at a time that life felt quite the opposite.”

Packing for Hospital…

“Twins are usually born earlier than single babies, so I was advised to have my hospital bag packed by 30 weeks. The advice I dutifully ignored, leaving my husband to do the packing after my waters broke the day before my planned c-section. Luckily, I had prepared what I wanted to take, and it was the little luxuries that I included that made a 2-week hospital stay more bearable.”

What to Pack for Hospital…

“I packed a few luxuries paired with some essential high-waisted knickers that helped me feel more held together.”

Tips on Recovery After Birth…

“One of my twins needed two weeks under neonatal care post-delivery, so I was in hospital for longer than expected. This allowed me some extra time to heal from my c-section, but my biggest tip for recovering post-birth is to take it slowly. Easier said than done when you have two babies to care for, but keep on top of pain relief, move little and often, and try to look after yourself also!”

“And that goes for after the initial postpartum period too. Your body has gone through a lot, and twin pregnancy is physically demanding– double the babies mean double the hormones for the first-trimester sickness and double the weight further into your pregnancy, which is why it’s essential to prioritise recovery where you can. At 14 weeks postpartum, I booked in with a women’s physiotherapist who assessed my pelvis, spine, pelvic floor and abdominals for Diastasis Recti and provided me with exercises for the areas that needed strengthening – something I’d recommend to anyone after birth.”

How to Shop for Two and Save Money…

“Babies are expensive and although twins mean double the babies, it doesn’t have to equal double the cost too. Facebook Marketplace is great for items that are in perfect condition. In some cases unused, and you can get baby clothes on Vinted that still have the tags on for a fraction of the price. Spend your money on the items that you’ll get lots of use out of and put your money you’ve saved towards something nice for yourself. Or loads of coffee.”

The Best Things I Bought…

“While you don’t need two of everything, there are a few items that I couldn’t have lived without. A prep machine for night time feeds was a lifesaver and mitigated having to boil kettles at 3 a.m. And I couldn’t have lived without my double-feeding pillow. I still use it when I need to prop them up for a few minutes, which means that I can feed them together, saving me time between feeds.”

You’re not alone!

“I’m the first to admit that I’ve struggled along the way. From the initial news to finding my pregnancy physically tough to caring for two babies at once, it can be hard and at times feel isolating. But there’s so much support out there.”

“Twins Trust (https://twinstrust.org) is a great place to start and offers advice to twin parents through pregnancy and beyond. From first aid classes, to help with breastfeeding and sleep, they also offer antenatal courses as NCT classes don’t tend to apply for twins/triplets. On the other end of the birth spectrum is Bliss, a charity set up for parents of premature babies and with multiple births more likely to result in early delivery and time spent in neonatal care, Bliss can help to provide families with the support that they need. (https://www.bliss.org.uk).”

“Finding a community of mums has also been a necessity for me and my local twin club has been a lifesaver. There’s nothing more reassuring than a room filled with 10 other twin mums (plus their 20 babies) to make you feel less alone in navigating the world of multiple motherhood. You can find your local twin club here (https://twinstrust.org/supporting-you/clubs/find-a-club.html).”

How I Navigate Bedtime…

“When it comes to bedtime, I’ve found routine to be crucial to everyone getting as much sleep as possible. My house is more ‘mum-led’ than ‘baby-led’, which isn’t for everyone. But I firmly believe that you know what’s best for you. I put my twins into their own room in separate cots at four months despite being told that I shouldn’t, and it helped hugely sleep-wise. But whether you choose to sleep train, co-sleep, rock, or feed to sleep –everyone will have an opinion, so you do what works best for you and your babies.”

What Happens When They Both Cry…

“Without a doubt, the hardest part of being a mum to twins has been only having one pair of hands. Hopefully, in time, this will mean that patience comes more easily to them, but it’s horrible only being able to console one at a time. My only tip is to take a deep breath, decide who needs you most in that moment and remind yourself that they are loved, cared for, and you’re doing your very best – a vital mantra for all mums to follow.”

It Will (and You’ll) Be Better Than You Expect!

“While the period leading up to the birth was an incredibly daunting time of my life, becoming a twin mum has been an initiation into the most special club that I didn’t know existed. If someone had told me that everything would be okay, I’m not sure I would have believed them. Don’t get me wrong it’s bloody hard. But a year down the line and having two babies has been the greatest gift imaginable. I’ve coped better than I expected, the lack of sleep hasn’t been that bad and I’ve loved every minute of being a mum to my twin little boys.”

Reviewed By Us: Stocked Frozen Food Blocks

Reviewed by: TMC Editor Lydia House

Pro IconPros

Saves time and money

Frozen blocks that help you create meals

Can be bought as a one-off or subscription

Homemade and so tasty

Con IconCons

They’re not a complete meal and you need to add to them

What is it?

“Frozen homemade food blocks (for adults and children) that you keep in your freezer. Heat them in a pan or microwave and pair them with a carb or vegetable for an easy, quick, delicious dinner.”

Overall Thoughts

“One of my biggest bugbears of being a mum is that I’m now in charge of ALL the meals. My husband sometimes cooks, but generally, it’s always me. Often, I lose the will to think about what everyone is going to eat, or I’m too tired to even do it. These blocks are so good as you can keep them in your freezer. A brilliant backup when there’s nothing in the fridge. They’re also versatile, as you can serve them with anything you like, like eggs, rice, pasta or potato. I love that you cook with them, instead of them being a complete meal. That’s both costly and can go to waste.”

How Does it Compare to Other Brands?
How Does it Compare to Other Brands?

“I’ve tried food boxes like Hello Fresh and Mindful Chef but often find it stressful to follow a recipe, even if it’s simple. I’ve also found that I leave to cook them until the very last date of expiry. While other fully made frozen meals are great, they can be expensive, and for me, they feel a bit indulgent. These frozen blocks are the perfect solution as they cut out the time it takes to make a delicious and healthy sauce, but I can use them whenever I want and tailor the meal I want to make. From baked eggs to burritos, the blocks work as a great base, resulting in a delicious meal every time.”

Is It Good Value for Money?
Is It Good Value for Money?

“It’s such good value. I used the signup offer and got 15% off, which meant my monthly subscription was £37. This means I get 4 packs a month. So, depending on what you use the blocks for, that’s at least 8 meals for approx £9. Which is amazing! I’d also say you’d get a lot more than 8. It just depends on what you’re using them for.”

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Would you recommend it?

“Yes, definitely! They have a range for both kids and adults, and I particularly like the Legendary Lentil Bolognese for the children, but really, it’s the adult range that really impressed us. The Sausage Arrabbiata makes the most delicious sauce for baked eggs or pasta, and the Smokey No’rizo has become my new favourite pasta sauce. We recently tried the Smoky Pork to make burgers, which was great too. My husband also loved the Tarragon Chicken. Everything we’ve tried so far is delicious, and I’m sure we’ll be subscribers for a very long time.”

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Cheap Meal Ideas For Under £5

And no, it’s not Maccy D’s

When you’re feeling the pinch, it’s really easy to become uninspired.

But cooking on a budget doesn’t have to result in pre-made pizza and cheesy beans on toast.

There’s a vast array of options out there – granted a lot of them centre around eggs.

But guess what?

We’ve rounded up some truly delicious (and thrifty) recipes, to give you the lift you need.

Enjoy!

Tasty Toad in the Hole
Tasty Toad in the Hole

An easy win for hungry tums. Serve with lashings of gravy and homemade mash.

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3 Ingredient Pea Soup
3 Ingredient Pea Soup

Vegetable soups are a winner when it comes to saving cash, and this one tops the lot as you don’t even need stock.

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Batch it up Bolognese
Batch it up Bolognese

Unless you’re a family of 12, this recipe should see you through around 2-3 separate meals.

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Super Cheap Mac n Cheese
Super Cheap Mac n Cheese

With change left over to buy and add some bacon, it would be rude not to.

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Thrifty Frittata
Thrifty Frittata

Not only is this cheap but it takes minutes to make, and it’s sooo delish! No beetroot? Peppers and tomatoes work just as well.

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 Money-Saving Mushroom Risotto
Money-Saving Mushroom Risotto

A simple, yet delicious dinner that is only £1.57 a serving.

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The Easiest and Most Effective Skincare Routine

This skincare brand makes looking after your face simple.

Whether you know your Hyaluronic Acid from your Niacinamide, your skin has probably changed during or after pregnancy…and you might now feel utterly lost about what to use.

Tropic Skincare is an incredible brand that feeds the skin with nutritious, natural ingredients, and has a brilliant ethos that protects our planet.

If that wasn’t enough, the brand also has a clever tool that makes choosing your skincare simple.

Read on to find out more….

The Easiest and Most Effective Skincare Routine

From cleansers to masks, these are the products you need and why…

Cleansing : Should I be double cleansing?

Cleansing isn’t that complicated; It’s just another word for cleaning. There’s no need to double cleanse or have different types of cleansers, unless your lifestyle causes your skin to require them. Living or working in a polluted city and wearing SPF or make-up are the main reasons for a good clean. If you live in the countryside, haven’t worn make-up in days and shower daily, you only need a light cleanse.

We love: Tropic Smoothing Cleanser
We love: Tropic Smoothing Cleanser

This creamy, gentle cleanser can be used morning and night, to remove make-up and impurities. We love the smell, but like most Tropic products, there’s an unscented version for supersensitive skin.

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Serums: Which serum should I use?

Serums are essential if you want to get better skin. Depending on your skin type, most mums wish for their skin to look less tired, wanting to reverse the 10+ years our kids have added to our faces. This is where a serum steps in. Your morning pals are Vit C for brightness, and Hyaluronic Acid and Peptides for plumping. In the evening, you want to reach for nourishing Peptides and Retinal for reducing signs of ageing.
Use serums wisely and at the right time, and you’re on to a win.

We Love: Glow Berry Brightening Serum
We Love: Glow Berry Brightening Serum

This lovely brightening serum helps reduce pregnancy pigmentation (dark spots) and hydrates the skin. You can use it in the morning or at night. If you like to alternate your am and pm products, we recommend using it as part of your morning routine. That way, it will protect your skin from pollutants and free radicals all day.

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Moisturiser: Do I need to moisturise if I use serum?

Repeat after us: Never ever, will I ever forget to wear my moisturiser. Why? Because it’s your skin’s protection against everything. Your moisturiser is the layer that keeps your skin from being attacked by external aggressors which cause damage and ageing. These things can be as simple as wind and rain or as severe as UV rays and pollution. Your moisturiser keeps your skin plump, happy and protected, so never underestimate it.

We love: Tropic Skin Feast Nourishing Moisturiser
We love: Tropic Skin Feast Nourishing Moisturiser

A great one for tired faces, this contains skin brightening Vitamin C and is full of antioxidants and ingredients that hydrate and protect your skin.

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Should I wear SPF in Winter?

If there’s no protective SPF factor in your daily face cream, then make sure you layer one on top. And yes, you should wear one even in winter!

We love: Tropic Sun Day Facial UV Defence
We love: Tropic Sun Day Facial UV Defence

This lightweight, fast-absorbing SPF50 facial sunscreen sinks in immediately to protect you from daily UV damage. It’s also blended with Hyaluronic Acid to hydrate, tropical Banana Flower extract to calm, and Prebiotics to nourish your skin’s microbiome.

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What About Masks and Exfoliating?

We’re busy people, and while we’d love to be masking our faces every other day and having weekly facials. It’s just not realistic. So do what you can. Exfoliate weekly with a gentle chemical exfoliator, and mask when you can with a nourishing and hydrating formula. If you haven’t had time, don’t stress about it. As your kids get older, you’ll make more time for yourself, and your skincare regime can become more of a priority. For now, just keep it simple.

We love: Tropic Comfort Food Deep Hydration
We love: Tropic Comfort Food Deep Hydration

This is great for hydration and has a lovely natural scent, which makes the whole experience so soothing. Not only is it good for tired, dehydrated skin, but it also soothes inflammation. Apply it as much as you like, whenever you want.
*Keep it in the fridge once opened for freshness – seeing it all the time will also act as a reminder to use.

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Still Feel Unsure About What Use?

Figuring out what your skin needs can feel daunting, especially if it’s changed because of a hormone shift and you’re now looking at a total flip of your skincare regime. Stepping into a beauty hall or expensive shop (you know the one) can fill anyone with fear, as you unsurprisingly feel pressure to purchase. Tropic take all that stress away, not only because you can do it online, but because the brand also has a skincare selector, which helps you choose a routine containing all the basics you need. It’s the easiest way to pick new products.

Read Our Review on the Tropic ABC Collection

If you want even more advice, Tropic has a Skincare Routine Finder for people who want to fix a skin issue like breakouts or dark spots. It’s also great for those who aren’t that clued up on what products they need or want. All you have to do is answer a few simple questions, and then Tropic will email you a bespoke list of suggestions. No obligation to buy, just good, honest and effective advice. 

Why We Love Tropic Skincare…

There is no greenwashing with this brand; all of the botanicals used in their products are sustainably sourced, and the formulations are freshly made every day in Tropic’s Surrey Beauty Kitchen. With no artificial preservatives or toxins, you know the 100% natural and vegan recipes will be kind to your skin. Plus 10% of all profits goes to charities and good causes.

What Tropic Do For The Planet

Tropic is determined to do good beyond beauty. From every formula the brand perfects to every carbon emission it offsets, and every child’s education it funds (over 6mil days of education in the last four years). Tropic is always guided by its Infinite Purpose: to help create a healthier, greener, more empowered world. Most recently, Tropic ditched Black Friday for ‘Give Back Friday’, funding over 73,000 schooldays for children in the world’s poorest, most remote regions via their long-term partnership with UWS (United World Schools).

Be Your Own Boss With Tropic

Tropic empowers people to be their own boss with its ambassador programme, which provides the chance for flexible working, a minimum 25% commission, with no targets. And this January, Tropic is hosting 16 events around the country, where you can learn about the brand’s incredible ethos and Ambassador programme. Hosted by Tropic’s Founder and CEO, Susie Ma, your £5 ticket to the talk gets you a goodie bag featuring the brand’s newest innovation. So, even if you decide it’s not for you, you still walk away winning.

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CREATED IN PARTNERSHIP WITH TROPIC SKINCARE

Reviewed By Us: Martinhal Sagres, Algarve

Reviewed by: Wellness Ed, aka Amy Lane

Pro IconPros

Family-friendly luxury

More affordable than competitors

The staff are so helpful

Delicious food

Short haul flight

Con IconCons

Kids’ menu could be more varied

Pram access to the pool is challenging

What is it?
What is it?

“A family-friendly hotel in the Algarve, Portugal, with beautiful villas and apartments and the option to be self-catering, half board or full. It’s stylish but kid-friendly. There’s a choice of heated pools, so you can always hunt down a quiet-ish spot, and the village square is a toddler Mecca with slides & swings. There’s also a small sandy play area near the beach. Basically, it’s easy to entertain the children pre/post dinner while sipping vino.”

Overall Thoughts

“The beachy resort is set within a national park and has a sense of calm, despite 99% of travellers having a toddler or two. Maybe it’s the billowy grasses and plants that create the calm. Or maybe it’s because children can be children here, so there’s no pressure to ‘behave’? Who knows! What I do know is that parenting here felt relaxed. My husband and I tag-teamed the mornings and nap time, so we both could exercise most days — a rarity back home. The gym, although small, is light and has enough kit. There are also classes but nothing first thing, so we skipped those. We also loved hiring bikes and trailers for a bit of sightseeing.”

Is it Good Value?
Is it Good Value?

“We compared the cost to IKOS, Domes and other resorts, and surprisingly, this was less expensive even with a drink, ice cream and a supermarket bill to pay at the end.”

What's The Food Like?
What’s The Food Like?

“We loved it! All three restaurants serve a la carte at night, so there is no piling your plate with a carnival of food types (standard buffet behaviour). And if you choose half board, then children eat free plus you can order breakfast to your room.”

Any downsides?

Being picky, the walkway down to the main pool and beach is classified as wheelchair/pram friendly, but it’s a bit of a workout. It’s short but intense. The children’s menu felt quite the same across the resort, so although fresh and with healthy options, it did feel a little tired by day 7.

Would you recommend it?
Would you recommend it?

“It was such a win for us, because of the combination of the outdoor play areas with the style and excellent food and flexibility of the hotel. Also the staff are always one step ahead and act like another pair of hands. We also loved that the flight is 2.5hrs so it felt manageable with a toddler who won’t sit still. This resort is genuinely child-centric, where all parents are fighting the same battles. There’s no judgment for big emotions. The staff let kids be kids. And there’s a wonderful Portuguese wine list!”

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*Amy paid full price for the trip but did receive a small discount on the ‘half board’ upgrade.