TMC’s Top Sleep Aids To Help You Get A Better Nights Sleep

Good sleep can be a challenge at the best of times, throw in a few kids and the weight of the world on your shoulders we’re all having more difficulty then normal to achieve the optimum nights rest.

We’ve tested out some sleep aids to help you drift off more calmly and quickly. From the high-tech – sound machines, weighted blankets and the perfect eye masks, we’ve trialled the lot.

Our favourites not only helped us sleep more peacefully and deeply, but reduced the anxious anticipation of bedtime and the pressure to rest well, and we found we woke up feeling more refreshed and positive. Albeit it with a toddler stuck to our side.

Mum Picks

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TMC Family Recipe Of The Week: Chocolate Meringue Nest

Ingredients:

100g milk chocolate
300ml double cream
200g fromage frais
1 tbsp icing sugar, plus extra for dusting
175g mini chocolate eggs

For the meringue
6 egg whites
180g golden caster sugar
165g icing sugar
1 tbsp cocoa, sifted

Method:

To make the meringue, preheat the oven to gas 1, 140°C, fan 120°C.

Line a large baking sheet with nonstick baking paper and draw a 20cm circle in pencil. Turn the paper over so the pencil won’t rub off on the food.

Using an electric whisk, beat the egg whites, caster sugar and a pinch of salt in a clean, dry mixing bowl on high speed for 4 mins, or until stiff peaks form.

Add the icing sugar and gently whisk until incorporated. Increase the speed and whisk for 3 mins, or until thick, stiff and glossy. Add the cocoa and whisk briefly to mix.

Using the pencil circle as a guide, spoon the meringue onto the paper in a nest shape with a deep hollow in the centre, keeping the sides tall. Bake for 1 hr 30 mins, or until slightly cracked in places and firm to the touch. Turn the oven off, pop the door slightly ajar and leave the meringue inside to cool.

Meanwhile, make the chocolate curls. Using a vegetable peeler, scrape the chocolate from the flat, long side of the chocolate bar to make long curls. Set aside until needed.

In a mixing bowl, lightly whip the cream and fromage frais with the icing sugar to soft peaks. Spoon into the centre of the cooled meringue and top with the mini eggs and chocolate curls. To serve, dust with a little extra icing sugar.

Expecting Or Know Someone Who Is? Here Is The TMC Team’s Guide To All Things Baby.

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Babies need stuff-and lots of it! Whether you’re expecting yourself or buying a gift for someone you know who is, it can be overwhelming sifting through the internet to find the right products ….say hello to our handy edit. 

Next has you covered for every essential for new arrivals from strollers to muslins and car seats to cribs a one-stop-shop to all your newborn needs.       

The TMC team shows you their favourite picks to make life a little easier…

Lauren Webber
Co-Founder & Editor

I am about to have my second baby, nearly 6 years after my first. I feel like I am starting from scratch all over again. I love that I can one-stop shop and get everything I need, I need all the time savers I can find!

Lauren loves…

Jessica Lawes
Co-Founder & Head of Brand Partnerships

With four children I feel like I have tested every product on the market. I am a big believer in sleep routines and good skin products for my children.

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Luzaan Shaw
Editorial Assistant

My girls are older now, so I am all about the gifting. Looking through this baby collection is enough to make me consider another!

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Andi Venardos
Brand Partnerships Assistant

I am not yet a mummy, but love to browse gifts for my friends babies. The Next website has EVERYTHING. I love that I no longer have to browse the whole internet to find the perfect gift.

Andi loves…

Jessica Aanensen
Franchise Co-ordinator

You never have everything before your newborn arrives. The bulk orders the day the baby arrives home are always the ones full of key items you have forgotten.

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TMC Talks To Lisa Furuland Kotsianis Founder Of DockAtot

What is the story behind DockATot?

When I had my first son, Ilias, in 2006, I felt there was something missing in the baby market that answered the multitasking needs of modern parents. After combing the market unsuccessfully for solutions that were both functional – providing parents a safe and comfortable spot for babies to lounge – and beautiful, the dock was born. At the core, I wanted something that could multitask, but in believing style and parenthood do not need to be mutually-exclusive, I sourced exceptional materials and fashion led designs that could live in any room of the house.

How did your journey into design begin?

I studied art history at Stockholm University and then professional photography to move on to studying architecture at the Royal Institute of Technology in Stockholm. So, there’s always been creative elements in my life. That background as well as my Scandinavian upbringing have resulted in a design sensibility that favours eclecticism. My belief is that all the solutions we make must look as good in the living room as in the nursery.

What has been your biggest challenge?

Finding the time to fit everything in! As a creative and entrepreneur, I am always exploring new designs, new mediums, and new solutions. My mind is like a buzzing beehive!

What does your day or week entail?

A typical day in my life involves struggling to get the boys out of bed in the morning – they have always stayed up too late the night before! I work from home, so I retreat to my office right after the kids leave for school – or right after a workout – and then it’s back-to-back phone calls, approving designs, checking in with all my teams around the world and answering many emails. I resurface after the kids get home and make sure to always have dinner together as a family. I used to resume work at night after putting the boys to bed, but these days the boys are in their teens and their bedtime is often later than mine! There is still plenty of night work, though; when you’re global, your teams and partners are in various time zones. This is not ideal in any way, as rest should also be a priority, but it is the way it is, and I am happy to have such a skilled and diverse team across various continents so it’s hard to stay away from the computer and all ongoing convos.

Was Aristot always in your plans and how did this come about?

The Aristot story started with a vision of creating an heirloom-quality bassinet that grows with families. As children age out of the baby stage, these pieces transform from bassinets into beautiful ottomans and tables. I thought it would be a good idea to bring fashion and style into the nursery for those who prefer the baby to sleep independently, in their own space, and then still leave you not with a redundant outgrown bassinet, but with a piece that takes shape of a statement piece of furniture.

Something you’ve learnt that is crucial to either your job or to success:

Be clear about what message you’re trying to convey to the public and stick to it – don’t compromise for mass appeal or popular opinion.

Greatest piece of advice you’ve been given? And worst?

Best advice is always “Don’t be afraid to take risks.” I always do something I am a little not ready to do. And it seems to work. That’s how I pave the way for things to happen. I stumble and fall at times, but what’s a small bruise in the big scheme? The worst advice I ever got was when it comes to parenting. Any variation on cry-it-out or separating babies from parents during the night was always something I instinctively rebelled against.

Who/what are you most inspired by?

I draw my inspiration from art, design, architecture, photography, and fashion. I take inspiration from the world around me and have been fortunate enough to move with my family to Athens which provides a plethora of inspiration. The history, architecture, flora and fauna found in Greece has contributed to a lot of my most recent work. Our entire DockATot community always continues to inspire me. I love hearing their stories and watching them grow.

How important is it to switch off?

As mentioned, it’s imperative – especially in an always-online world. As much as I can, I prioritise family time before work. I know that these precious days when the children are still living in our home won’t come back. When they are older, I know I won’t be thinking ‘Oh, I wish I had gone on more conferences and business trips when they were young.’ My boys are now in their teens and it is starting to feel as if they’re slipping through my fingers, which is incredibly bittersweet.

How do you manage your work / life balance?

There is no work-life balance, just life. And if we’re lucky, a life in harmony. The life of an entrepreneur is filled with irony. If you’re happy on a personal level, you become more productive and creative professionally. And if your professional life makes you fulfilled, then you’re more content at home. We can’t always do only what we love. But we can always find the love in what we do. And for me, this is made easier by my actual career path; that of the entrepreneur’s – where I am actually at the reins of my destiny (somewhat at least!).

What has been your proudest moment of DockAtot to date? E.g. Working with NHS?

I am very proud that DockATot is being used in a number of NHS hospitals and we are in touch with the hospitals regularly who keep us informed regarding how they are using our docks. Our initial thoughts when working with the hospitals is that we could create a much cosier space inside big hospital beds, especially for children who may have prolonged hospital stays. However, we have been delighted to hear how helpful the docks have been during procedures and scans, especially with younger babies, as the docks help to calm them during stressful examinations and procedures that may cause them stress. It’s also a wonderful tool since it lets them recover and rest, which is such an essential part of recovery.

How do you manage mum guilt?

I try not to feel guilty as I hope I’m teaching my kids a solid work ethic and a sense of pride. My goal is that my kids will feel like they, too, can accomplish whatever they set their minds to. As a mother to two sons, it’s also my obligation to show them that women can be just as much as a force as men in the work world.

Words you live by

Practise gratitude. I daily take a brief moment, sometimes several, to notice and reflect upon the things I am thankful for. We all have struggles in life, across various aspects of life, but we also have things that bring us comfort and joy and pleasure. By reflecting on things that are positive in one’s life, the way one perceives situations changes by adjusting what we focus on. In turn, this gives life a heightened sense of meaning and happiness.

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Why It’s Important For New Mums To Get Outside

Who knew leaving the house could be so hard?

Not only does it feel like you’re packing for a holiday (we wish!). But you need to navigate feeds, nappies and tantrums, all while making yourself look presentable (ish).

And then when you finally feel ready, you realise the ever-disappearing red book or bank cards have gone AWOL again!  

But what if we told you that getting outside can not only improve your mental and physical health but can also help with a whole host of other things too – including sleep!

Interested? Well, to give you the kick you might need, we’ve teamed up with outdoor clothing specialists and family-focused brand Regatta to explain how getting up and going doesn’t need to be a huge stress.

5 Reasons to Get Outdoors

You’ll feel happier

When you’re exhausted it’s tempting to hide your tired face from the world. And, of course it’s important to try and recoup lost sleep, but if you can slot in a little walk, we guarantee your mood will improve. Integrative Health Coach Rosie Underwood says, “A lot of my clients that are new Mums find it hard to step outside as getting out of the house isn’t as easy as it used to be.” “But it’s important to make it a priority”, says Rosie. “It reminds you that you’re part of something much bigger. Walking outside is a natural anti-depressant. It helps calm the mind and body, and it can improve breathing and help connect you back to yourself”. It is also scientifically proven that natural light suppresses melatonin (the sleep-inducing hormone), which means getting out into the daylight during your waking hours can help conquer a low mood. And it doesn’t have to be a trek. Even just 10-15 minutes will make a massive difference to your day.

It breaks up the day

Ever entertained your child with a game, looked at the clock and realised only a few minutes have passed? When you go for a walk, you can waste away a good hour, which really breaks up the day.

It’s guilt-free entertainment

Feeling guilty about putting your little one in front of another episode of Peppa Pig? Sometimes, when we lack energy, a highchair, snacks, and a screen can feel like the only option. Try taking a walk instead. Popping your child in the pram gives them 360 degrees of entertainment and It’s also a great way to teach them about animals and objects. And the best bit? It lets you have a moment of peace. Whether you use the walk to make some phone calls, catch up on texts or take in some fresh air, you and your kids will reap the benefit of this brilliant alternative to TV.

Your skin will glow

A brisk daily walk will increase blood flow and, in turn, help your skin to glow. Hello bright happy skin!

You & your baby will sleep better

There’s nothing like a breath of fresh air to tire out toddlers, babies and even adults. This is because there’s more oxygen outside than inside your house, which increases your serotonin levels and makes you feel calm, happy, and relaxed. Studies have shown natural light and air can help encourage a better night’s sleep for all. And that includes you – hopefully!

How to leave the house like a pro. No, seriously, it’s a skill.

Go in the morning

Fill your cup with some morning goodness, and no, we don’t mean coffee – but that’s a great excuse to leave the house. Integrative Health Coach Rosie Underwood says, “Go out before lunch, and you’ll feel better for the rest of the day. It’s always best to go for a walk first thing as we tend to leave it too late and then never go”. Forget any chores like washing up or laundry and deal with them later.

Be prepared

Always feel like you’re in a rush? Pack a bag or fill your pram the night before and then get your outfit ready. It might feel like the last thing you want to do but trust us, it will save you so much time, effort, and stress in the morning.

Make your life easy

Save time spent weighing up the weather, and if you should pack and umbrella and invest in the perfect “chuck on” coat. Our suggestion is something comfortable, waterproof and trendy (so you don’t need to worry too much about what’s underneath). The Adasha Waterproof Jacket is ideal for spring walks; featuring Isotex fabric and a hood, you will be fully protected if and when the heaven’s open. It also features a pull-cord waist to give a feminine and flattering silhouette.

Reward yourself

There’s nothing better than coming home from a cold walk to a hot cup of tea or chocolate. Get the heating on and stock up your cupboards with some treats, so you have something to look forward to when you get back indoors. Now that’s what we call incentive.

Buddy up

Commit to your daily dose by meeting a friend. That way you’re more likely to do it as you don’t want to let them down. And even if you end up sheltering in a café, you’ll have made it out of the house and will feel a million times better for it.

Get the right gear

Soppy wet shoes and clothes can make anyone feel sad. Make sure your outerwear has you protected by choosing high quality outerwear and footwear. Here are some of our favorites:

Why TMC readers love Regatta

Sarah

Juggling the motherload can only be done by getting outside. I used to train a lot pre-babies, and I was always told there’s no such thing as bad weather, just bad kit. And yes, my life has changed a bit, but I still live by that motto, and I have a Regatta jacket that I always wear when I’m walking the dog (and the kids).

Lydia

Whether I’m on a nursery run or taking my baby out for a stroll, I always rely on Regatta clothing to keep me warm and dry. I love my Regatta coat, and when I throw it on over leggings and a jumper, it makes me feel instantly put together.

Emma

I had a caesarean in January, and I was nervous to even start walking but I found getting out for a few minutes a day and then building up my strength helped boost my mood and improved how I felt after my traumatic birth. My Regatta coat was an absolute lifeline, and it made it seem easy even when it was crazy cold.

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TMC Family Recipe Of The Week: Pancakes

Ingredients:

100g plain flour
2 large eggs
1 tbsp caster sugar
250ml milk
2 tbsp melted butter, cooled
a knob of butter, for frying

Method:

Sift the flour into a bowl with a pinch of salt and make a well in the centre. In another bowl, whisk the eggs with the sugar, milk and melted butter, to combine, then pour into the well. Using an electric hand whisk (or balloon whisk), whisk the liquid into the flour until you have a smooth batter.

To cook the pancakes, heat a teaspoon or so of butter in a small frying pan until hot and foaming, a 16-18cm pan is ideal. Add 2-3 tablespoons of batter for each pancake, swirling it around the pan as you add it. The batter should make 10-12 pancakes in total.

Cook each pancake for 1-1½ minutes, then flip over for a final minute on the other side. As the pancakes are ready, layer them between sheets of nonstick baking paper.

TMC Family Recipe Of The Week: Chicken Broccoli

Ingredients:

3 cups frozen or fresh Broccoli Florets
2 cups cooked chicken or turkey
1 can (10-3/4 ounces) condensed cream of mushroom soup, undiluted
1/2 cup mayonnaise
1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese
1/2 teaspoon curry powder
1 cup cubed bread
2 tablespoons butter, melted

Method:

Preheat oven to 200°.

In a small saucepan, cook broccoli in water until crisp-tender; drain. Place in a greased 11×7-in. baking dish; set aside.

Combine the chicken, soup, mayonnaise, cheese and curry powder; spoon over broccoli. Top with bread cubes and butter.

Bake, uncovered, until heated through, 25-30 minutes.

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8 Children’s Books That Celebrate Black Girls And Boys

The social unrest we’ve seen over the last couple of years shows we still have a long way to go to truly tackle racial inequality. We can all contribute towards implementing change through gestures both big and small. That said, it’s never too early to introduce our children to the enriched, multicultural world we are living in by ensuring they have a diverse range of books.

According to a survey reported on TheBookSeller.com, books featuring Black, Asian or minority ethnic characters continue to be underrepresented in the publishing industry, with only 4% of children’s books featuring black or brown main characters. As a result, we’ve compiled a list of 8 of our favourite children’s books that feature positive and empowering black main characters.

1.	Ella Has a Plan – Davina Hamilton
1. Ella Has a Plan – Davina Hamilton

Ella Has a Plan is the third instalment in a series of children’s books written by Davina Hamilton featuring young black central characters, which aims to inspire children to truly believe they can achieve anything their heart desires, whether professional or personal goals. Following its bestselling predecessors Riley Can Be Anything and Riley Knows He Can, Ella Has a Plan sees Ella learning how to develop conflict resolution skills so she can put a stop to her quarrelling cousins’ spat and enjoy her mummy’s big party. Aimed at four- to 14-year-olds, this is an awesome book for encouraging young children to confidently tap into their emotional intelligence. In usual Davina Hamilton fashion, the book is bright, beautifully illustrated and features memorable rhyming verses.

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2.	Lily and the Magic Comb – VV Brown
2. Lily and the Magic Comb – VV Brown

Lily and the Magic Comb is a beautifully inspiring book written by multi-platinum recording artist VV Brown. The book is centred on the young character Lily who through the power of her imagination can be transported to anywhere her heart desires with the assistance of her magical comb. Enhanced by the book’s unique, vivid illustrations and its powerful message on confidence and identity, this is a terrific book for children of all backgrounds to bolster their self-belief and an inner knowing that anything is achievable.

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3.	The Mega Magic Hair Swap – Rochelle Humes
3. The Mega Magic Hair Swap – Rochelle Humes

Mai has hair that is curly, whirly and spiral shaped. Rose meanwhile has blonde hair that’s long and straight – the total opposite of her best friend. They both wished they had each other’s hair. So, when a magical coconut comes along and grants them their wish, they are jubilant at first before discovering that ‘perfect hair’ is not always what it seems. This is a brilliant debut book by TV personality Rochelle Humes, which will no doubt resonate with children with curly/Afro hair who often feel that their hair texture is seen as inferior in comparison to those with straighter hair types due to the dominance of the Eurocentric beauty ideal.

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4.	 Miles & Mia A to Z - Michaela Alexander
4. Miles & Mia A to Z – Michaela Alexander

Based on the young sibling duo Miles and Mia, this is the first instalment of their book series, which spotlights the traditional alphabet but offers a slight twist. Comprised of rhyming text and colourful illustrations featuring the formidable duo, the book uses references specific to African/Caribbean cultures in the most vibrant and delightful way. The book series is the brainchild of Miles’ and Mia’s mother Michaela Alexander who felt compelled to create it after noticing a distinct lack of children’s books featuring black and characters when her children were younger.

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5.	Anansi The Trickster Spider – Lynne Garner
5. Anansi The Trickster Spider – Lynne Garner

Anansi the Spider is a classic character within West African/Caribbean folklore, known for his ability to use his smarts to outwit the animals and people in his village with creative thinking. Each Anansi story serves as a life parable, and this book is a great introduction to the trickster spider, featuring 16 short stories all replete with teachable moments for young children.

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6.	Zeki Can Swim - Anna McQuinn
6. Zeki Can Swim – Anna McQuinn

There’s nothing quite as magical as splashing around in a swimming pool, and in the book Zeki Can Swim, we join baby Zeki on his swimming lesson as he sploshes and splashes while being held by his loving and supportive Dad. Filled with bright illustrations that jump out from the page, as well as a diverse range of families from different racial backgrounds, this is a great book for teaching young children what to expect when attending a swim class.

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7.	Look Up! – Nathan Bryon
7. Look Up! – Nathan Bryon

This fun, educational and informative picture book introduces us to the character of Rocket – a confident, space obsessed black girl who harbours dreams of space travelling and becoming an astronaut. Look Up! bursts with enthusiasm and wonder, underpinning a poignant message about connecting with the Universe and the world around us instead of being caught up in our phones and other forms of modern technology.

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8.	Baller Boys – Venessa Taylor
8. Baller Boys – Venessa Taylor

The young football enthusiast in your life will love Baller Boys, a heart-warming story of two best friends, Shay and Frankie, who eat, sleep and breathe football. When an opportunity comes for the pair to attend trials for a sought-after football club, they enter a world of fierce competition which makes them wonder whether their friendship will survive the experience. This is an excellent read for teaching children about the tenacity required to achieve life goals, and how to deal with the inevitable challenges that life brings.

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TMC Family Recipe Of The Week: Spicy Salmon Bowl

Ingredients:

FOR THE SALMON
80 ml low-sodium soy sauce
80 ml extra-virgin olive oil
60 ml chilli garlic sauce
Juice of 1 lime
2 tbsp. honey
4 cloves garlic, crushed
4 (115g) salmon fillets

FOR THE SPICY MAYO
120 g mayonnaise
Sliced pickled cucumbers
2 tbsp. Sriracha
2 tsp. toasted sesame oil

FOR THE BOWLS
Cooked brown rice
1 avocado, sliced
1 medium carrot, grated
1/2 red onion, thinly sliced Cilantro leaves, torn Sesame seeds
Coriander leaves, torn
Sesame seeds

Method:

Make salmon: Preheat oven to 180°C (160ºC fan) and line a large baking tray with foil. In a medium bowl, whisk together soy sauce, olive oil, chilli garlic sauce, lime juice, honey, and garlic. Add salmon and gently toss to combine. Place on prepared baking tray and bake until salmon is fork-tender, 20 to 25 minutes.

Make spicy mayo: In a small bowl, combine mayonnaise, Sriracha, and sesame oil. Assemble bowls: Divide rice among 4 bowls. Top with salmon, pickled cucumbers, avocado, carrot, red onion, coriander, and sesame seeds. Drizzle with spicy mayo.

TMC Family Recipe Of The Week: Easy Sausage Carbonara

This is one of our weekly menu rotations! It’s so easy and very delicious, who doesn’t love Jamie Oliver!

Ingredients:

150 g dried tagliatelle
3 higher-welfare sausages
½ a bunch of fresh flat-leaf parsley (15g)
1 large free-range egg
30 g Parmesan cheese

Method:

Cook the pasta in a pan of boiling salted water according to the packet instructions, then drain, reserving a mugful of cooking water.

Meanwhile, squeeze the sausagemeat out of the skins, then, with wet hands, quickly shape into 18 even-sized balls.

Roll and coat them in black pepper, then cook in a non- stick frying pan on a medium heat with ½ a tablespoon of olive oil until golden and cooked through, tossing regularly, then turn the heat off.

Finely chop the parsley, stalks and all, beat it with the egg and a splash of pasta cooking water, then finely grate and mix in most of the Parmesan.

Toss the drained pasta into the sausage pan, pour in the egg mixture, and toss for 1 minute off the heat (the egg will gently cook in the residual heat).

Loosen with a good splash of reserved cooking water, season to perfection with sea salt and pepper, and finely grate over the remaining Parmesan.

What Your Child’s Birth Order Says About Their Personality!

We’re all familiar with terms like middle child and only child syndrome, but is there any truth to theory that your child’s personality is determined by their birth order?

How many mums out there believe that your child’s personality is developed based on their birth order? We certainly think there is some truth to it. Personally speaking, when my second child arrived, it began to dawn on me and my partner from as little as 6 months that he would be considerably different, personality-wise from our firstborn. Whereas our first son was quiet, agreeable and chilled out. In contrast, our second son/youngest child (now six years old) is rowdy, non-compliant, and super opinionated. We felt set up. We had such an easy ride the first time round the parenting rollercoaster, that we assumed it would be equally straightforward the second time. When we expressed these thoughts to parents who have also had more than one child, we’re often greeted with a sympathetic smile and words like ‘Ahhh, you’re genuinely surprised by the fact that your lastborn is a bit of a ‘handful’ (the more PC term for asshole).’

Although on the surface theories like birth order might seem like psychobabble, it is in fact a subject that has been written about and analysed for decades, initially devised by a psychologist/researcher named Alfred Alder who developed the concept and published his findings in 1927. He wrote: “It is a common fallacy to imagine that children of the same family are formed in the same environment. Of course, there is much which is the same for all in the same home, but the psychic situation of each child is individual and differs from that of others, because of the order of their succession”

And while it goes without saying that there are always exceptions to the rule when it comes to birth order, and things aren’t often as cut and dry as these classifications suggest when we bear in mind other factors like culture and parental attitudes.  However, the concept remains a valuable tool that can help you to examine your children’s personality, outlook in life, and possible career aspirations and trajectory. So, let’s unpack some of the common associations with birth order and how it shapes the personality of your offspring.

Firstborn personality traits

Firstborn children are likely to have benefited from the unfaltering attention you most likely bestowed upon them from the moment you found out you were pregnant. From incessantly snapping your bump, reading copious amounts of books and articles about pregnancy, to obsessing over your bundle of joy – like most mums to be, you probably documented every single detail. This is all good stuff, but it also results in a colossal amount of undue pressure on the firstborn when it comes to you and your partner’s expectations regarding your child’s life. As such, first born children tend to be ambitious, type A personalities who place a lot of value in achieving success in their careers. Famous firstborn adults include Oprah, Beyonce and Hilary Clinton who could hardly be considered slackers. Firstborns tend to be found in leadership roles like senior managers and in the teaching profession. On the downside, due to such high expectations placed upon them firstborn children are prone to fear of failure and are reluctant to step out of their comfort zone due to being raised in a more rigid environment compared to their younger siblings.

Famous firstborns: Beyonce, Oprah, Richard Branson, Winston Churchill

Character traits of firstborns: Natural leaders, mature, conscientious, reliable

Middle child personality traits

There’s an ongoing joke in popular culture that the middle child is the forgotten sibling that’s often outshined by their ‘golden child’ older sibling, or the youngest child who is considered the baby of the family and typically fawned upon. We’ve all heard of the term ‘middle child syndrome’, which is based on the theory that those in the middle remain unseen and are considered a bit of a spare part. Although it may seem like harmless fun to joke about the plight of the middle child, it can cause those in this position to feel resentful of the fact that they’ve drawn the proverbial short straw when it came to birth order selection. But on the plus side, middle children have an enviable freedom from the shackles of parental expectations that comes with being a firstborn, and often pursue their goals and follow their interests. Personality wise, middle children are master negotiators and peace makers – having to always cooperate with both older and younger siblings. They are also master communicators as they are used to fighting for their voice to be heard.

Famous middle children Jennifer Anniston, Sarah Jessica Parker, Miley Cyrus, John Legend

Character traits of middle children: Peacemakers, independent, good negotiators

Lastborn personality traits

Lastborn children are typically the rebellious, non-conformist of all siblings (which explains our second child/lastborn’s feisty disposition). They are the most likely to question your rules (or ignore them altogether), because as the baby of the family they have experienced a more chilled out, easy going version of your parenting style in comparison to your oldest child. This often manifests in confident, free-spirited children who know their own mind and are single minded in their pursuits. It’s often been said that last born children shirk responsibility, as they are used to being the baby of the family and having things done for them.

Famous lastborn children: Willow Smith, Ariana Grande, Harry Styles, Prince Harry

Character traits of lastborn children: Rebellious, free spirited, entertaining, creative

Only child personality traits

Only children tend to inhabit similar personality traits as firstborns, having also experienced receiving the unwavering attention of their parents, in this case, for all of their lives. Consequently, they tend to be hard working, goal orientated and successful in their career pursuits. Only children often get a bad rap and have historically been viewed as self-absorbed, unsociable, and a bit of a loner, hence the term ‘only child syndrome’. However, research shows that being the only child often pushes the offspring to become independent, adept at manoeuvring in social situations and confident in their abilities, due to spending the bulk of their social time among adult company, or having to keep themselves entertained.

Famous only children: Adele, Alicia Keys, Justin Timberlake, Selena Gomez

Character traits of only children: Mature, independent, confident

7 Reasons Why We Should be Renting our Children’s Wardrobes

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Despite their size, little people need a hell of a lot of stuff. And not only do their things take up a lot of room, but they also cost a fortune.

But what if we said that you could rent their clothes and save yourself some space, cash and help the planet in the process?

Yep! Whether you’re a first time Mum or you’re already storing a mountain of differently sized items, a new rental service is about to make your life easier (and cheaper!).

Meet Bundlee! A baby clothing rental service that is made for parents hoping to reduce cost and waste – without compromising on style.

Want to know more? We tried it out for you. Read on to find out what we thought…

1. It saves you money

Often ethical options tend to cost more money but not with Bundlee. And while we loved the Capsule Subscription for providing essential stylish items that can save you around £200 per month, we were particularly fond of the saving that the Personalised Subscription offered. Not only do you get to choose what is delivered, but you can also pick from an array of designer pieces that you might not usually be able to afford. The saving can be as significant as £300+ a set! And the best bit? You get to dress your little ones in brands like Mori, Mini Rodini, Patagonia, The Bonnie Mob and Hatley. ‘Insta Mum’ life here we come!

2. The environment will thank you

It’s likely that you’re already acutely aware of the volume of waste children produce. The number of wipes and nappies they go through is just offensive. But you might not know that just one babygrow takes 250 litres of water and 2kg of carbon emissions to produce. By choosing to rent your clothes from Bundlee, you could help save 86% of the CO2 emissions and 96% of the water usage compared to buying new baby clothes. Bundlee is also extremely careful about the brands they provide and will only stock designs that have been produced with sustainability in mind. Eve says, “The fabric we use in Bundlee Originals (Bundlee’s own brand) is made using 70% renewable energy, and we use ozone sanitisation that doesn’t have any chemical waste”. Now that’s what we call incentive! Plus, one of the things we also noticed (and loved) was how the items we ordered arrived. Even the tag on the reusable packaging was biodegradable – they’ve literally thought of everything.

3. It makes your life easier

Working as a flexible monthly subscription (meaning you can pause or cancel anytime), Bundlee’s plans cover a set number of pieces that can be swapped in and out whenever you like. All you have to do is pick a plan that works for you, and voila, a beautiful set of clothes is delivered to your door. Not only is the website so simple to use, but we also loved that you can keep the items for as little or as long as you like. This is particularly ideal if your child goes through a sudden growth spurt and suddenly nothing fits them. Once Bundlee receive your returned items you simply choose the next size up. And whether you pick Bundlee’s Capsule Subscription or opt for the Personalised Subscription, both save you time and effort, as all the clothes are edited by experts to suit a stylish lifestyle and mind. Bundlee Founder Eve Kekeh told us, “We didn’t want people to be scrolling through a mass of pictures and wasting hours online, so we have carefully curated the pieces we stock so it doesn’t feel overwhelming”.

4. There’s no need to worry about stains

We’ve got to admit that one of our first thoughts about renting baby wear was ‘what about the poo stains!!’. When you’re a nervous, and tired, new mum, the last thing you need is another worry. ‘Bundlee have got you covered’, says Eve, ‘Honestly, stains are no issue, let us worry about that and just send the item back. Your subscription includes rental insurance, which covers stains and general wear and tear. Plus, we also use specialised and hygienic cleaning services, which can remove most marks that you might not be able to get out at home and anything we don’t think is suitable to be sent out again we give to charity, or we recycle. Nothing ends up in landfill’.

5. It’s ideal for first-time mums

Navigating what your newborn needs can feel incredibly overwhelming. It’s hard to know what to buy and how much to get. We still don’t fully understand the difference between a romper and a sleepsuit. Is there one? Bundlee makes it easy with their Capsule Subscription service, £24, as they send out a pack of products containing an array of essentials. Eve adds, “The capsule plan is perfect for new mums as it makes the decision process simple”. Of course, you’ll still need to buy other items like socks and muslins, but this 15-piece set will cover the large number of things you need and works as an ideal gift to give yourself or to send onto others.

6. You can mix and match different sizes

Ever bought a set of clothes and the trousers slip off your little one’s bum but the jumper fits them just so? Every child is different, and just like adults, they can be longer or shorter in their tops, bottoms and accessories. Bundlee solves this issue as many of the styles are available in different sizes, meaning you can mix and match your separates and can flip between age ranges. You can also send things back and swap to a larger or smaller size if it turns up and the fit isn’t right.

7. You have more room at home

Planning on having another baby and holding on to previously worn clothes that are filling up cupboards and closets? You’re not on your own. According to a study by Hubbub, over a 180 million pieces of outgrown baby clothes are currently stored in UK homes. Yikes, that’s a severe amount of hoarding. And unless you’ve got a mansion, we could all do with freeing up some space. Renting clothes means someone else is storing them for you. And even though you send the items back, if there’s a particular style you loved the first-time round (if it’s still in stock), you can revisit it the next time you need it. Eve says, “We get a lot of parents coming back asking for the same bits they loved for previous children or renting matching looks for siblings”.

Prices:

Capsule Subscription, £24 per month can save you £200+ per set

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Personalised Subscription, £39 per month can save you £300+ per set

Pick your plan here https://bundlee.co.uk/pages/pick-your-plan

Get your first month free when you sign up to Bundlee with code: TMC100

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